ok so basically im not girl

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ok so basically im not girl

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Post by DarkZero » Fri May 31, 2019 4:47 am

EDIT: I am NOT a girl, as it turns out! I'm actually nonbinary, more information here: https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sqthvj?new_post=true

Below is the original post, for posterity's sake:
It wasn't an easy decision to come to, but after weighing the pros and cons a LOT, I've decided this is what I want to do.

I've been having a lot of doubts and confusing about my gender identity for a while, and while I'm not 100% sure that being female is right for me, it is absolutely something I want to pursue. I've changed my pronouns on most of the internet by this point and have come out in a few different circles already. Haven't come out IRL, and I have no particular plans to anytime soon. It's much safer for me to limit this to my internet presence for right now, I think.

Also I've decided that I like the name "Zoe", so if you ever want to refer to me casually in a conversation, that'll be my name.

Probably still gonna keep my username as DarkZero. If I do end up changing it, it'll probably be something with the same acronym bc tbh I like it when people call me DZ.

TL;DR I'm a girl now, she/her pronouns please, call me Zoe if you want
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Post by Valigarmander » Fri May 31, 2019 5:44 am

Congrats. :) Best wishes for you going forward.

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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Fri May 31, 2019 7:48 am

Welcome out, Zoe! Thank you for sharing this wonderful news with us~ <3

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Post by Deepfake » Fri May 31, 2019 7:51 am

Congrats :)
I muttered 'light as a board, stiff as a feather' for 2 days straight and now I've ascended, ;aughing at olympus and zeus is crying

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Post by CaptHayfever » Fri May 31, 2019 8:11 am

DarkZoe, got it. :)

And remember, "I'm-a Luigi, number one!"

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Post by Deku Tree » Fri May 31, 2019 8:14 am

Can do. Good luck.

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Post by Apiary Tazy » Fri May 31, 2019 4:19 pm

Do what makes you comfortable. That's all that matters in the end. :yes:

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Post by Spritedude » Fri May 31, 2019 8:09 pm

That is awesometastic news, Zoe. :cool:

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Post by RinkuTheFirst » Fri May 31, 2019 8:22 pm

I thought about making the "DarkZoero" joke on Twitter, but it's just as silly now.

Congrats! ^_^

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Post by smol Kat » Fri May 31, 2019 9:09 pm

I'm here for the DarkZoe. :) Congrats, and thank you for sharing this with us <3
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Post by Red » Fri May 31, 2019 9:56 pm

Congrats on making a tough decision.

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Post by ScottyMcGee » Sun Jun 02, 2019 9:00 am

W00t! Congratulations!

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Post by United Nations » Sun Jun 02, 2019 6:35 pm

Congrats!

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Post by DarkZero » Sun Jun 02, 2019 11:34 pm

ok well this is kind of embarrassing

https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sqthvj?new_post=true (its geared towards my Twitter audience but it largely applies here too)

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Post by Deku Tree » Mon Jun 03, 2019 10:49 am

Glad you could sort that out.

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Post by smol Kat » Mon Jun 03, 2019 3:56 pm

That kinda thing happens to more people than you think. No worries, friend!
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Post by Apollo the Just » Tue Jun 04, 2019 2:48 am

DZ's gender is [REDACTED]

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Post by steeze » Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:12 am

That's awesome. I'm glad you're figuring out who you really are.

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Post by Saria Dragon of the Rain Wilds » Tue Jun 04, 2019 11:52 pm

Nonbinary is just as valid and we're all behind you 100% for whatever is currently right for you! Your growth and progress is a unique and personal experience. <3

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Post by Random User » Wed Jun 05, 2019 11:10 am

Aaaaa!!! Very happy that you're exploring yourself, DZ!

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